Yes, plenty of times and a couple graduated up to boyfriend. Black women who hold out for a black man are wasting their energy if they cannot find one, and then want to complain about being dateless wonders. Life is too short to be caught up in details.
On the other hand, as a confession, the night that I heard India Arie sing this song at the Universal Amphitheater out in L.A., while sitting next to my waffle colored brown skin boyfriend made for an interesting post-concert memory...
